Find Balance in Life & Clarity in Thoughts!

There comes a time in everyone’s life when success, wealth, and recognition no longer stir excitement from within. For me, that moment arrived quietly—unnoticed—after years of chasing goals, meeting deadlines, and ticking off accomplishments. I had everything I was supposed to want, yet something still felt incomplete.

Perhaps it was in that quietness, in the silence between achievements, that I began looking for something deeper—not in the world around me, but within myself. That was the beginning of my journey into spiritualism.

Everyone has their own way of exploring and experiencing spiritualism—and I truly believe that each path is valid in its own truth. For me, the spiritual journey was never about following set rules or complicated beliefs—it was about understanding myself and finding peace within. I have always been inclined to keep it simple, authentic, and deeply personal. My journey is more heart-led and experiential than intellectually or theologically driven.

I never felt the need to follow predefined methods. Instead, I chose to explore and reflect on what truly resonates with me at the core. Over time, my understanding of spiritualism evolved into four simple yet profound elements: Belief, Trust, Surrender and Acceptance.

Interestingly, these inner realizations began to find a practical rhythm when I came across Sahaj Marg meditation techniques in 2020.

The practice was simple, yet deeply transformative. It helped me connect with my heart and calm the scattered thoughts in my mind. With regular meditation, I began to feel more relaxed, clear, and balanced—not just during meditation, but throughout my day.

1. Belief – The Foundation

Spirituality often begins with believing in a higher power, the invisible, or the unity of all life. It is that quiet inner nudge that tells us there’s more to life than what meets the eye. This belief doesn’t require proof—it simply asks for an open heart and a willingness to explore.

It is the first step on a journey inward, where answers come not from logic, but from deeper awareness. It is the spark that ignites the journey inward and upward.

Morning meditation becomes a powerful starting point. The early hours offer a calm space that gently aligns the thoughts (mind), emotions (heart), physical self (body), and life force (energy) before the demands of the day take over. Through the simple practice of connecting with the light within the heart, belief transforms from a mere idea into a lived experience.

"Belief is the seed of awareness; without it, the path remains invisible."

2. Trust – The Reinforcement

Once belief is established, trust follows.

It is the quiet confidence that life is unfolding the way it’s meant to—even if we don’t always understand how or why.

Trust helps us stay calm during uncertain times. It reminds us that we don’t need all the answers to move forward. With trust, we begin to let go of fear and lean into life with faith.

On the meditative path, this trust deepens with the cleaning process—a unique practice of letting go of emotional burdens and impressions. With daily cleaning, we begin to feel lighter, gain clarity, and develop a quiet assurance that the inner work is truly taking place.

"Trust turns belief into a relationship with the unknown."

3. Surrender – The Liberation

Surrender isn’t giving up; it is letting go of ego, control, and resistance. It is a humble acknowledgment that we are part of something far greater than ourselves.

When we surrender, we stop fighting life and start flowing with it. It is a gentle reminder that we don’t have to carry the weight of the world on our shoulders.

True surrender brings a deep sense of relief—because we finally accept that we’re not alone, and we are not in control of everything. It is in this letting go that we find a quiet strength and deep inner peace.

"Surrender is where the soul breathes free—beyond fear, beyond doubt."

4. Acceptance – The Peace

Finally, acceptance brings serenity. It means embracing life as it is—not as we wish it to be. Acceptance doesn’t mean giving up or settling for less. It means seeing things clearly, without judgment or resistance.

It is about making peace with the present moment, even when it is not perfect. When we accept what we cannot change, we free ourselves from stress and struggle. In that space, peace quietly enters—and we begin to live with more grace and ease.

"Acceptance is the flowering of surrender—it turns struggle into serenity."

For me, spiritualism unfolds through four inner stages: Belief, Trust, Surrender, and Acceptance. Together, they form a deeply personal evolution—from the initial spark of faith to the ultimate peace of letting go.

As I continued with the meditation practice, I noticed a quiet shift happening inside me. I started letting go of things that no longer served me—like ego, greed, anxiety, stress, fear, impatience and judgement.

I did not try to fight them. Instead, they slowly faded as I became more connected with my heart.

Ego became less important. I did not feel the need to always prove myself or be right. I learned to stay humble and listen more.

Greed lost its grip. I began to feel content with what I had, instead of always wanting more.

Anxiety, stress and fear became easier to manage. Through regular meditation, I found calmness and clarity. I stopped reacting impulsively and began responding with patience.

Impatience and judgment softened. I found myself more understanding and compassionate, both toward others and myself.

These changes did not happen overnight. They came quietly, over time, as I continued my daily practice. I began to feel lighter, more peaceful, and more in control of my inner world.

It is simple. It is honest. And for me— that is enough.

In Conclusion:

To me, true spiritualism isn’t confined to rituals or distant retreats. It lives in the everyday moments—in the way we live, love, and connect with others. I believe it quietly flows through every relationship we hold close: between parent and child, teacher and student, doctor and patient, husband and wife, and even between strangers who exchange a moment of kindness.

In my view, spiritualism is like an invisible thread that binds us through empathy, respect, and understanding. It’s the silent recognition of something divine in another person—beyond roles, expectations, or outcomes. It’s not separate from life; it’s woven into it.

Disclaimer: The views expressed in this article are solely based on my personal experiences and perceptions. I do not intend to cause any offense or hurt anyone's feelings. Readers are encouraged to interpret the content in their own context and discretion.